Lesson 12 of the free Engage course covers how to fully open the flow of life’s generous gifts, including love, pleasure, abundance, connection, and more.
You’ll find the rest of the Engage course videos in the Video section.
Lesson 9 of the free Engage course delves into how to use visualization to attract and enjoy the experience of being in love with a delightful partner, including how to bypass a key mistake people make when trying to use the Law of Attraction to manifest loving partners.
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Lesson 8 of the free Engage course covers how to increase your mental and emotional flexibility and open up your vibrational range, so you can access new experiences that were previously beyond your grasp. Turn the almost possible into the actually real.
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Yesterday we wrapped up the 12th and final Zoom call of the Bucket List Challenge, concluding a deeply immersive journey into identifying and experiencing our true desires. This challenge was an adventure in itself, spanning multiple months and guiding participants through a powerful process of choosing and acting on meaningful life experiences.
The challenge unfolded in three distinct rounds:
Round 1 kicked off in September 2024, focusing on the logical and structured approach to decision-making. We explored mental frameworks, practical strategies, and resources to help you break free from hesitation and start moving toward your desired experiences.
Round 2, beginning in November 2024, took a vibrational approach. Instead of relying solely on logical reasoning, we invited intuitive alignment and emotional resonance into the decision-making process.
Round 3, launching in February 2025 and concluding on March 4th, was about going deep and making decisions with profound personal meaning. This round wasn’t just about picking bucket list items – it was about identity-level shifts, making commitments that activate a re-emergence of one’s true self.
Watching people shift from uncertainty to clarity, especially during yesterday’s final call, was incredibly rewarding. Some breakthroughs weren’t just about what to experience but also who we were becoming in the process.
Our final call ran extra long – 4 hours and 10 minutes – because we went very deep into these transformational decisions with each active participant. It wasn’t just about picking bucket list items. It was about locking in experiences that felt profoundly aligned, exciting, and life-expanding.
Now Available as a Self-Study Experience
Now that the live version is complete, all 12 recorded sessions are available as a self-paced experience. If you missed the live rounds, you can now go through the entire process at your own pace, following along with the same structure and insights that guided the live participants.
The first round is heavy on instruction – it gives you the core tools, decision-making models, and practical strategies for making solid bucket list choices. The second and third rounds are more social and example-driven, so you’ll get to see real people wrestling with their options and ultimately arriving at clarity. Watching these breakthroughs unfold is both inspiring and instructive, especially when you see people making bold decisions in real time.
If you’ve ever felt drawn to living more adventurously, seizing the experiences that call to you, and overcoming the inertia of waiting for “someday,” this challenge is for you. The whole experience is ready for you now.
This Tuesday through Friday, January 28-31, I’m hosting a series of four Zoom calls (one per day, 2 hours per call), and I invite you to join me.
It’s called Go Rogue, and the purpose is to help you honor and strengthen your relationship with your inner rogue – those parts of you that tend to be rebellious, resistant, and uncooperative with your other goals, plans, and desires.
Instead of trying to suppress your inner rogue, I invite you to discover a new way of relating to these aspects of yourself – so you can recapture the energy within and enjoy greater harmony and flow in your life.
Come join us and forge an empowering new relationship with your inner rogue. Reclaim, re-harmonize, and re-integrate this powerful source of motivation, drive, and energy within you.
This is a one-of-kind event, and you’ll get the recordings too. I’ll see you inside!
Lesson 7 of the free Engage course covers how to significantly increase your freedom, so you can enjoy a remarkable flow of time abundance to explore and experience what most appeals to you, including delightful connections with highly compatible people. This video reveals many subtleties that affect how much freedom you can access, express, and experience – there’s a LOT packed into it.
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Lesson 5 of the free Engage course covers how to use sex energy in a gentle way to create a deliciously abundant sex life that’s right for you. This one is very unique, sharing ideas about sexuality and sex energy that I haven’t seen shared anywhere else.
This video has a very relaxed pacing, so you may want to watch it at a faster speed if you’d like to go through it more quickly. Or grab a cup of tea and listen while reflecting on your own relationship with sex energy, how this relationship has evolved over time, and where it may want to go next.
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Here’s lesson 4 for the free Engage course. It’s about how to use your power to create the reality you desire. This video especially focuses on how to shift from wanting something to actually experiencing it.
As I watched it, I really liked the vibe all the way through and opted not to do any internal cuts, edits, or effects this time, so the whole thing is one continuous take. I felt that any cuts or effects would detract from the nice flow of it, so I kept it minimalist this time.
Today, November 19, at 11:11 AM Pacific Time, we enthusiastically begin Round 2 of our community Bucket List Challenge. There are 3 rounds total with 4 Zoom calls per round. All the details are spelled out on the Bucket List Challenge page, including the price, which is a very low $333 – so virtually nothing relative to the immense value of massively expanding your experiential range and having some new life experiences that you’d otherwise never get to have.
Yes, you can still join now, and you’ll get all the Round 1 recordings (and those for all three rounds when they’re published). We publish each video to the BLC member portal the same day the live call happens. You can attend any or all of the 8 remaining calls live, or watch the recordings (or both). Same price either way, nice and simple.
Round 1 was a lovely warmup with the encouragement to pick something relatively easy but still richly meaningful. I picked something I’ve never done before, which was to celebrate Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead). That was my main one for the first round, but I also had many other fascinating new experiences. Here’s a list I recently shared about it in Conscious Growth Club:
Celebrating Día de los Muertos with Rachelle for the first time ever. This included learning more about its history and roots, acquiring and setting up decorations in our home (including papel picado), creating our first ofrenda, getting a Día de los Muertos oracle card deck and doing many readings with it (including on a CGC call), going to two local festivals on November 2nd and enjoying music + dance troupes + art + food + vendors + more, acquiring some related art, and connecting a lot more with ancestral energy. This was super lovely all around, and I’m so glad we did it. This was my official selection that I chose during Round 1. I wanted to pick something meaningful and flexible but not overly complex. I’d say this was just perfect for me at this time. It was deeper and richer than I expected, precious even, and I love that we can build upon it in future years.
Doing a couple’s MDMA session for the first time ever. We’re still in the ripples of that, which is progressing with more insights and transformations each day. This past week has been the sexiest of my life… so shamelessly slutty. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that I seem to be ridiculously happy too. This has really cracked open a ton of fresh insights, shifts, and reframes about relationships, sex, and love – and how simple and natural it can all be when the blocks and filters are swept aside.
Making cannabutter for the first time (from 15 different strains) and testing different amounts of it, ranging from about 100mg to 700mg so far. It’s definitely potent, wonderfully well-balanced, and really useful for deep inner journeys. I like how simple and also precise this exploration method is. It’s such an easygoing and cooperative energy to work with. I’m learning to direct the journeys with it more consciously, telling it what I want to work on and then letting it help me. I feel like I’m pulling out a lot of bent nails and pieces of broken glass that were stuck in my human matrix, like I’m doing energy-level surgery and chiropractic adjustments.
Trying a new cannabis strain called Strange Haze #8, accepting the invite to define and cast my own intentions and expectations onto it before trying it. It really did flow with what I expected of it.
Did a deep cannabis inner journey on a plane for the first time (with two Indica gummies), which was perfect for a 4-hour flight. There was something about being 30,000 feet off the ground that made it extra engaging, whereby the symbolism of being high up was woven into the experience.
Trying a new mushroom variety called Goldmember, which is a hybrid of Golden Teacher and Penis Envy. It was surprisingly gentle and also long-lasting in duration. Since I have access to two other varieties too, this opens up more combos to experiment with as well.
Went to Chicago and had lots of new experiences there, including as a riverboat tour, hitting up a bunch of museums, and seeing two parades. My favorite part of that trip was seeing a 1921 silent movie (The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari) with a live organist. That was such a unique and memorable night – and not something we’d preplanned. We just stumbled upon the theater while walking around.
For Round 2 I’m not prepping a bunch of mental content to share. That was Round 1’s energy, which gave you a very rich and deep framework for identifying, filtering, probing, committing to, and advancing new experiences you’d love to have.
For Round 2 I’m going to host the calls by sensing and flowing where the energy wants to go at each point. The BLC has a consciousness of its own – formed by the collective intentions of everyone participating – and it’s going to take us on a beautiful journey together. All you need to do is show up and be willing to dance with it. I think what it brings up this time will surprise you. I expect to be surprised too because it’s showing me many of the vibes we’ll be working with, but it isn’t showing me the details yet. That tells me it has some surprises up its sleeve.
So please come dance with us through Round 2 of the BLC. Bring your expectations if you wish, but also be open to having them swept aside, so something even better can emerge for all of us.
And oh you’re gonna have so much fun on today’s call. It’s going to be very divergent and creative – and definitely sexy. Don’t wimp out! Show up and participate, and you’ll have a great time!
Skim the details on the Bucket List Challenge invite page if you want, and then follow your heart and trust your intuition, click the Join button on that page, take a minute or two to enroll, and I’ll see you inside!