Is ‘JOMO’ Travel The Secret To Your Best Holiday Yet?

“Gig-tripping.” “Sleepcations.” “Hush trips.” The list of quippy terms and trends in the travel industry is ever growing. Lately, another new concept has been circulating: JOMO travel.

As we race through spring break season and into summer 2025, people planning trips might want to consider embracing the JOMO approach. But what exactly is JOMO travel and how does it work?

Below, experts break down the benefits and downsides of this trend ― and how to best embrace it in your future travels.

For starters, what is JOMO?

“Most people are familiar with the term FOMO, or the ‘fear of missing out.’ JOMO is the opposite of that – it stands for the ‘joy of missing out,’” Melanie Fish, a travel expert and head of global PR for Vrbo, told HuffPost. “The JOMO mentality is all about protecting your peace and personal needs rather than staying super busy and compelled to always be doing something.”

In contrast to FOMO, JOMO is about redefining what brings you happiness and appreciating what’s actually important.

“For me, JOMO is the freedom to slow down, say no to the pressure of ‘doing it all’ and fully enjoy what really matters,” said travel blogger Sean Lau. “It’s about being present and intentional ― not feeling like you have to be everywhere or see everything just because it’s trending.”

He believes choosing “presence over pressure” makes life feel much more fulfilling.

“I’m a fan of the Chinese ‘lying flat’ movement, which is about living simply and opting out of the socially conditioned trappings of hustle and work culture,” said travel journalist and content creator La Carmina. “I feel JOMO fits in well with ‘lying flat’ ― both are about putting the emphasis on simple joys and prioritising stress reduction. To me, JOMO is realising the pointlessness of playing the social climbing capitalist game, especially now when purchasing power and the rewards for grinding are fewer.”

What does JOMO mean in a travel context?

“For travelers, JOMO is giving yourself permission to ditch the packed itinerary and just experience a place more naturally,” said travel blogger Esther Susag. “It’s choosing to spend an extra hour at that local café instead of rushing to the next attraction ― embracing where you are instead of stressing about what you might be missing elsewhere. I discovered this concept after years of trying to cram way too many sights into my trips and realising I wasn’t truly experiencing any of them.”

The concept clearly has fans. In fact, the latest travel trends from Vrbo, Hotels.com and Expedia named “JOMO Travel” as a top trend for 2025.

“Travelers are looking for rest and relaxation over the typical sightseeing and crowded tourist excursions,” said James Barnett, the general manager at Deer Path Inn. “We’ve been seeing guests opt for slower-paced experiences allowing them to enjoy serene moments and stress-free activities — giving them a well-needed break from the bustle of life.”

Everyday life can be exhausting enough. You don’t want to feel like you need a vacation from your vacation.

“We’re all overstimulated, and the pressure to have an Instagramable vacation is overwhelming,” said Annette Richmond, creator of the blog Fat Girls Traveling. “Oftentimes when you’re visiting the popular hotspots in a destination it’s too crowded to truly enjoy the experience anyway. JOMO has taken off because it removes the pressure to tick things off your itinerary list and reminds you to just appreciate where you are.”

Instead of focusing on your bucket list, JOMO-focused travel allows you to focus on your happiness.

“Unlike some travelers, I’ve never been a ‘country counter’ who aims to visit as many countries as possible, just to cross them off the list,” La Carmina said. “Rather, JOMO is about slowing down and enjoying your travels rather than putting your energy into travel logistics and consumption. For example, I’m heading to Mexico and was considering hopping over to a new country such as Costa Rica. However, when I realised it would require pricey flights with a stopover, long drive times to the rainforest, and expensive tours and hotels, I decided that my peace of mind took priority.”

What are the benefits of JOMO-focused travel?

“When it comes to the benefits of JOMO, I’ve had way more meaningful, personal travel experiences,” Lau said. “I connect more deeply with the places I visit, feel less burnt out and actually enjoy my travels instead of rushing through them. It’s a slower kind of travel, but it’s richer in every way.”

JOMO-focused travel also allows for visitors to get a better sense of the local community and even make new friends. Rather than trying to check off all the attractions, you can actually stop and talk to people and be spontaneous.

“More often than not, locals are very passionate about showing their local life,” said travel blogger Isabel Leong. “This results in the opportunity to discover a destination that’s not refreshing and unique through local and authentic experiences.”

She also believes JOMO travel allows you to spend less money as you aren’t trying to maximise what you do every day. You also might feel more inclined to stay with a local host or at a less expensive hotel away from all the action.

“JOMO-focused travel lets you avoid the headache of spending money and jumping through logistical hoops, as well as dealing with annoying tourists that flock to popular landmarks and experiences,” La Carmina said. “To me, this approach lets me enjoy the local culture without having to bend over backwards.”

JOMO-focused can also be less expensive as you embrace experiences like wandering around, chatting with locals and visiting fewer overpriced tourist spots.

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JOMO-focused can also be less expensive as you embrace experiences like wandering around, chatting with locals and visiting fewer overpriced tourist spots.

Indeed, a recent survey from Vrbo, Hotels.com and Expedia found that 62% of travelers polled believe JOMO travel reduces stress and anxiety, and 47% said it enhances quality time with loved ones.

Embracing JOMO also means letting go of the need to capture social media-worthy content. Stop trying to see and photograph it all and just allow yourself to be fully present wherever you are.

“The biggest benefit is that you actually enjoy your trip instead of just documenting it,” Susag said. “I’ve found that my most vivid travel memories come from unplanned moments ― a conversation with a family in South Africa, finding a hidden beach in Cyprus, or stumbling upon a local festival in Australia. These experiences weren’t on any checklist, but they’re what made those trips special.”

Are there any downsides to JOMO when it comes to travel?

“The main downside to JOMO travel is that you might not be able to experience the destination exactly how you envisioned the first time, but it gives you plenty of opportunities to return to experience it again,” Richmond said.

Not everyone has the chance to make repeat visits to different travel destinations, however.

“This lifestyle may not be for those who have limited vacation days, and if you do have limited vacation days, you may not feel like you can ‘afford’ to JOMO,” Leong said.

Travellers tend to cover less ground with the JOMO approach.

“To be honest, sometimes you might miss something incredible,” Susag said. “But the reality is you can never see everything anyway. I’ve visited over 40 countries and haven’t seen 100% of any of them. There’s freedom in accepting that limitation. The mental shift from ‘I need to see everything’ to ‘I want to truly experience what I do see’ has made my travels so much more meaningful.”

There is room for balance as well. You can cherish quiet, chill days during a vacation interspersed with busier sightseeing days. Or you can alternate JOMO trips and action-packed travels that allow you to immerse yourself in new cultures.

“There’s a difference between embracing JOMO and being passive or lazy,” La Carmina said. “I currently need a chill JOMO vacation during this stressful era, so a simple beach getaway is perfect for my needs. However, I won’t turn down an opportunity to go somewhere adventurous in the future. I feel it is also important to push yourself out of your comfort zone.”

What’s the best way to have a JOMO travel experience?

“If someone wants to try JOMO on their next trip, my best advice is leave space in your itinerary, say yes to the unexpected and don’t be afraid to put the phone away,” Lau said. “Let go of the need to do it all.”

You can build an outline of an itinerary and book a few things, but try to leave whole mornings, afternoons or even days totally unscheduled.

“Choose quality over quantity,” Susag advised. “Pick one ‘must-see’ per day, then allow yourself to wander. Plan less! Ask locals where they spend their time, not where they send tourists.”

If you can swing it, she recommended booking your accommodations for a day or two longer than your planned activities so that you don’t feel rushed.

“Take time to just observe daily life,” Susag said. “Some of my favourite travel memories are simply people-watching at local cafés or parks.”

You also might consider taking a more extreme approach by planning nothing except your transportation and accommodations. Try to opt for flexible and cancellable bookings, too.

“Allow yourself to settle in, get into the feel of things and then decide on the day if you’ll stay in, explore your vicinity or sign up for an activity,” Leong said. “This takes the pressure off of always having a plan, and rushing to meet a timeline of moving from place to place.”

Richmond recommended traveling during shoulder season or considering a group trip to have a JOMO experience.

“The best part of a group trip is that you don’t have to do any of the planning, just show up,” Richmond said. “So you don’t really know what you’re missing out on and you get to really immerse yourself in the country and culture.”

The same goes for your specific choice of destination. Rather than focusing your Japan trip on popular cities like Tokyo and Kyoto, for instance, think about taking a train to one of the lesser known town with serene shrines, beautiful landscapes, relaxing onsen and better prices.

“Consider off-the-grid, remote destinations that are removed from the hustle bustle,” Fish said. “Serene leisure destinations near beaches, lakes, rural areas or in the mountains are ideal escapes that allow travellers to surround themselves with nature and peace and quiet.”

She advised looking for accommodations that make it easy to “do nothing,” like a lake house, countryside cottage, beachfront house or cozy mountain lodge. Great amenities can also help.

“It’s easier to put your devices away when you can relax in a sauna or steam room, lounge by a private pool, cozy up with a book in a stocked library, or appreciate nature if there’s a front porch with a view,” Fish said.

If your goal is to escape the stress of over-planned travel without feeling too isolated, you can find balance at a hotel property, too.

“Another way to enjoy JOMO during travel is to book a great hotel with activities that you can do for hours,” Richmond said. “Like a hotel with an expansive library or art collection or one with spa and wellness services that allow you to escape the pressures of life.”

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4 Signs You’re Not Compatible With Your Travel Partner

Traveling with another person — be it a friend, relative or romantic partner — has a way of strengthening or straining the relationship. When you have similar travel styles, the trip is generally more likely to go smoothly, bringing you closer together and deepening your bond. When you have differing travel styles, the vacation can become tense and stressful, driving a wedge between you.

So how do you know if your travel styles are aligned or not? We asked travel experts to share some of the telltale signs you might be incompatible in this area and offer advice on what to do about it.

1. One of you is a planner and the other is more spur-of-the-moment.

When one person loves having a well-thought-out plan and the other would prefer to fly by the seat of their pants, you’re bound to hit some turbulence on the trip.

“If you are someone who likes to have a flexible itinerary and be open to spontaneous changes in plans, while your travel companion prefers a more structured and organised approach, it can lead to resentment and conflict,” travel blogger Sean Lau of The Turkey Traveler told HuffPost.

“You may feel restricted and constrained by their need for a rigid schedule, while they may feel stressed and anxious in an environment that lacks clear plans and direction.”

2. One of you is an early riser and the other likes to sleep in.

Having conflicting sleep schedules can create friction when traveling together. The morning person may get up early, eager to get a head start on the day, while the night owl may want to skip morning activities to log some extra sleep.

“For instance, if you want to get up early and walk around the city but your companion is hungover from the night before, that could be a problem and a sign of incompatibility,” travel content creator Jen Ruiz, author of “12 Trips In 12 Months,” told HuffPost.

Similarly, when you and your travel partner have different energy levels, it can make it difficult to find a pace for the trip that suits both people, Lau said.

“If one person may want to do a lot of activities while the other may prefer a more relaxed pace, this can lead to disagreements and arguments,” he added.

“The idea that your romantic partner also needs to be your number one travel buddy is a myth,” says dating coach Damona Hoffman.

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“The idea that your romantic partner also needs to be your number one travel buddy is a myth,” says dating coach Damona Hoffman.

3. One of you is an adventure-seeker and the other prefers a leisurely trip.

Travel content creator Sam Cormier, the woman behind the @samanthas_suitcase Instagram account, said one of the most important factors to consider when choosing a travel companion is what you each enjoy doing on a trip. Some people want to pack their days with lots of action and new experiences, while others may be looking for more leisurely activities, for example.

“Are you an outdoorsy hiker who wants to get out into nature while your travel buddy wants to explore museums? Would you want to shop and sightsee until you drop, while the other person just wants to relax at the spa or by the pool?” she told HuffPost. “This will likely cause tension on what should be a fun vacation because neither of you are doing what you want to do.”

Having different levels of comfort when it comes to physical activity and nature can make it more difficult to find mutually enjoyable activities, Lau said.

4. One of you is a big spender and the other is a saver.

Having different priorities around money can be a major source of conflict when traveling. Issues tend to arise when one person is looking to splurge and have a more luxurious experience and the other person is looking to save a few bucks wherever possible.

“If you want to go to a high-end restaurant and stay in posh hotels while your travel partner wants to microwave something from a local gas station and stay in long-term rentals, one of you is going to be uncomfortable,” Ruiz said.

“Make sure your values around money are similar and that you’re prepared to have a budget and spending range that’s aligned with each other. Otherwise, one person feels stretched and worried about money, and the other can feel restrained in their ability to enjoy the destination how they’d like.”

What To Do When Your Travel Styles Don’t Align

“Planning the trip together so that you both have a say in activities, restaurants and accommodations is key in making sure both sides are heard,” says travel content creator Sam Cormier.

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“Planning the trip together so that you both have a say in activities, restaurants and accommodations is key in making sure both sides are heard,” says travel content creator Sam Cormier.

Can you still travel together and have a good trip even if your travel styles are less-than-compatible? Cormier says it’s possible with two key ingredients: open communication and a willingness to compromise.

“Planning the trip together so that you both have a say in activities, restaurants and accommodations is key in making sure both sides are heard,” she said. “If you respect the other’s preferences but also set your own boundaries, you should be able to still have a great trip together.”

If you know (or suspect) that you and your travel partner have different vacation styles, Ruiz said her best advice is to book separate accommodations when you can.

“That way, everyone can retreat to their own space at the end of the day to let tensions defuse,” she said. “I have rented an Airbnb where everyone gets a different room, and that works well. Not always feasible for a hotel, but if possible I’d get separate rooms there, too.”

And keep in mind it’s totally OK to travel together but do some stuff on your own, too.

“You can also choose to spend some time apart, each doing separate activities, and come together for a specific meal or activity throughout the day that you both want to do,” Ruiz said.

As Lau said, “A trip together is about enjoying each other’s company and creating everlasting memories, but that doesn’t have to be every single minute of the day.”

“A trip together is about enjoying each other’s company and creating everlasting memories, but that doesn’t have to be every single minute of the day.”

– Sean Lau, blogger at The Turkey Traveler

And, of course, it’s OK to choose to travel with certain people less frequently (and in some circumstances, not at all) based on your differing personalities and preferences.

For example, you might feel pressure to always vacation with your spouse because, well, you’re married. But if your travel styles are incompatible, why not also plan some trips with your sister or your college roommate who may like to do things that are more your speed?

“The idea that your romantic partner also needs to be your number one travel buddy is a myth,” dating coach Damona Hoffman recently told HuffPost. “You probably have other friends with whom you do regular trips or who already like to travel your way. It’s more important to continue to value those friendships and carve out time for those trips than to force your partner to do everything you like to do the way you like to do it.”

No matter who you’re traveling with, clearly voicing your expectations ahead of time “especially around money, time, activities, and accommodations” will “limit surprises on the ground,” said Ruiz. When planning a trip with someone new, it’s a good idea to do a trial day trip with them first before you agree to something longer.

“Can you tolerate three hours in a car with this person before you commit to a cross-country or international flight?” she said. “Is there anything that bothers your partner during travel, like allergies, motion sickness, ear popping issues? This is good information to know because maybe they’ll be irritable or extra sensitive to these things, and that can help explain any shift in mood or behavior.”

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