Decluttering Tips

I’ve been decluttering my garage for the past few weeks, so here are some decluttering tips I’ve figured out for processing, purging, and organizing, especially if you have a lot of old tech clutter to deal with.

Approach Decluttering with Patience

Just chip away at the project one item at a time, not worrying about how long it will take. It’s wise to approach such a project with great patience, allowing it to take as long as it wants to take without feeling any need to rush.

I put this project off for years because I could never squeeze it into any kind of schedule. I only made significant progress when I gave this project a totally open-ended schedule with no deadline, opting to do it right instead of trying to rush through it. Surrendering to the unpredictable duration of the project helped tremendously.

Switch Fully into Personal Mode

I could never make headway with this project when I was in work mode by default. I could only get it done by making it a priority, which meant that I also had to take a slice out of my year to prioritize my personal life above my business goals. That’s a hard thing for me to do, but I viewed and approached it as a personal growth exploration to see what it would be like to put my work life on the back burner and to elevate my personal goals for a while.

While working on this project, I haven’t written any articles, for instance. My last blog post was written 47 days ago, so that’s almost 7 weeks off from writing.

And actually it’s been wonderful. I feel like I should take a significant slice out of every year and do this sort of thing. I’ve been able to slide into non-work mode while traveling, but since I work from home, I found it hard to fully shift into personal mode while at home. Consequently, a lot of home-related and personal projects lingered near the bottom of my to-do list, starved for attention.

Mentally I could always say that I should be able to chip away at these projects on weekends and evenings, but that approach never got the job done. It’s been so much more effective to fully load in the context of doing such a personal project by treating it as my #1 priority for weeks on end. This really is a whole brain task, and by giving it my full attention, not merely my after-work attention, I’m finally getting it done in a way that feels good to me.

Focus on Relationships with Items

For each item, ask questions like these:

  • What do I want my relationship with this item to be?
  • Is it still meaningful to keep it?
  • How would I feel if I let this item go?
  • If I want to let it go, what’s an intelligent and regret-free way to process and release it?

I find the regret-free standard especially helpful.

Question Every Item

Invite each item to justify its worth and value to you. Don’t assume that you “should” keep anything just because you’ve held onto it for so long.

I finally let go of some items I’ve had since the 80s or 90s, such as an old tennis racket from high school. It felt good to finally release them, even though I’d previously assumed that I should always keep them.

Challenge some old rules about what you think you must keep. See if those rules still seem valid to you today. Don’t let old rules slide into your default thinking; reassess them anew.

I find it helpful to ask: What rule says I should keep this item?

I had a rule that said I should always keep old trophies and awards. But is that a necessity? No, it’s just a rule I inherited when I was in school. This time I finally purged some awards (like plaques) that weren’t particularly meaningful for me anymore, like from Toastmasters’ speech contests more than 15 years ago.

Process and Recycle Old Electronics

Do the proper research to figure out your best strategy for recycling old electronics. Once you have a process for handling these items, it’s much easier to face electronics clutter.

I learned that Best Buy stores are great for recycling old electronics since they’ve made a commitment to do a lot of tech recycling. They will accept a wide variety of items including old desktops, laptops, cables, mice, keyboards, hard drives, routers, printers, speakers, cameras, VCRs, video game systems, and more – and they’ll take almost everything for free. For details see: bestbuy.com/recycling

Amazon and Best Buy will both give you store credit for certain kinds of tech trade-ins. I traded in a 9-year old iPad (so old that it was limited to iOS 9 – we’re at iOS 14.7 today) and two old Apple TV boxes for some store credit at Best Buy. I traded in an old Sonos speaker and some wireless networking hardware for Amazon credit. Amazon will even pay for the shipping. You may get more money from using eBay, but this is super convenient if you just want to move some items out.

Amazon is a great place to find convenient interfaces for old tech if you want to transfer old data to new devices. For $15-25 you can get a USB interface adapter that can connect directly to 2.5″ and 3.5″ IDE and SATA drives, CD/DVD drives, and floppy disk drives. I had 6 old hard drives from PCs and laptops that I used from 2002 to 2007, and surprisingly all 6 drives still worked, even though most of the computers that housed them had long since died. It’s a simple matter to remove an old drive and connect it to a modern computer, normally requiring only a screwdriver.

Wipe Your Data

I read an article sharing that most people who resell old smart speakers (like Amazon Echo devices) don’t even factory reset their devices. At least do a factory reset before passing on a device, which is relatively easy to do. You can easily look up how to do that for any device with a simple online search.

Mac OS makes it really easy to wipe old hard drives securely by overwriting old data with 3 or even 7 passes to render the drive’s data irrecoverable. Just connect your drive, run “Disk Utility”, select the drive you want to erase, click “Erase”, select the desired security option, and go from there. The old drives I erased ranged from 20GB to 160GB, and it typically took a few hours to throughly erase each one.

Best Buy and other tech recycling places also have arrangements with companies that will destroy the drives for you. This is free at Best Buy while other places may charge a nominal amount. But it’s still a good idea to erase the drives before handing them in.

Alternatively, you can physically destroy an old drive yourself. There are instructions on how to do that in various ways, such as by hammering nails through the platters of old hard drives. Just be sure to wear good eye protection. Personally I think it’s better to let a tech recycling place handle this more professionally with the proper equipment.

Donate to Charity

If there’s a drop-off location near you for charitable donations, that can be a nice way to let go of items. There’s one just a few minutes from me, so I’ve dropped off a lot of items there.

Some charities will also come to your house and pick up items for free. In the past I’ve even donated two old cars this way. The cars wouldn’t even start, but an animal rights charity came by to tow each one away. The charity can still resell the car for some value, and they saved me the trouble of having to deal with it, so that’s a nice win-win.

I don’t like using eBay, so I didn’t use it for any part of this project, but that’s always an option if you like using the service.

Replace Items with Photos

If you want the memory of an item but would prefer to eliminate the clutter, take a photo of it (or several photos) before you let it go. See if it feels good enough to just keep the photo and release the physical item.

I’ve release a number of mildly sentimental items when I realized that a photo would be good enough to retain the memory.

Create the Emotional Vision for the Space

Framing a project as just decluttering can make it seem boring or tedious, so consider more appealing or inspiring frames. A good framing that helped me move my garage project forward was to think about transforming the space into a place in my home that I felt good about – a storage area that’s neat, clean, and nicely organized and that makes me feel relaxed and soothed when I’m there.

Another frame that works very well for me in general is to treat any project as some kind of upgrade. I’m very good at completing projects that I frame this way. So I’m not decluttering the garage; I’m upgrading it from a cluttered space to a well-organized part of my home. The entire project can also be framed as a series of small upgrades. I just find projects more motivating when I frame them as upgrades.

Thinking about how I wanted to emotionally feel inside the space was really helpful, and I think it led to better decisions regarding how to organize it. I could assess how I was doing by how I felt, and I kept taking small steps to align the space with better feelings.

As you make progress, keep asking questions like:

  • What part of this space still creates tension for me?
  • What part of this space evokes positive feelings in me?

Such questions can be very helpful for deciding which parts to process and upgrade next.

We actually spend a lot of time working on reframes in Conscious Growth Club each year because this is such a powerful and effective method for getting stuck energy moving again. A lot of people think they need to push themselves more to get certain projects done, but that isn’t necessary if you reframe your projects to better align with your natural motivation patterns.

Choose Storage Options That Feel Good to You

My garage didn’t have good storage for the items I wanted to store there, such as camping gear and workshop supplies. Consequently, many items were just lying on the floor of the garage when I began. Partway through the project, I browsed for storage options that would fit my needs and evoke the emotional response I was looking for.

I learned that Costco is a great place to find flexible storage solutions at reasonable prices. I got two sets of these metal shelves for $90 each in the local Costco store on sale. I like that they’re on wheels, which enabled me to commit to using them to organize some items (like camping gear) before I fully decided where I wanted the shelves to end up.

I found it especially helpful to set up these shelves earlier in the project than I initially expected because it allowed me to fully transform one portion of the garage into a nicely organized space. Even though other parts of the garage were still cluttered, upgrading one corner of it to be just how I wanted helped me really lock onto the vibe for how I wanted the whole space to feel. It was very encouraging to have part of the space feel like it was already done, even though other areas still had a ways to go.

Clean It

Cleaning and decluttering go hand-in-hand. Cleaning a space gives it a whole different feeling, like you’ve raised the standard for how that space is to be treated.

I’ve been giving the garage a thorough cleaning as I’ve been going along, including vacuuming up lots of dust and clearing out cobwebs, dead bugs, and leaves. It’s not pristine – it’s a garage after all – but the cleanliness upgrade definitely improves how I feel about the space.

Never Say “Should”

Keep asking:

  • What kind of relationship do I ultimately want to have with this space?
  • What next action would improve that relationship?

These questions can help you figure out what to do next. Never ask: What should I do next? There are no shoulds… just invitations and possibilities.

Embrace the Mental and Emotional Journey

Processing old possessions isn’t just a physical experience. It can be very mental and emotional. So many items can bring up memories and past associations.

I recommend letting yourself dwell in those thoughts and feelings, giving ample time to process them. You may think that this will slow you down, but it can have a very positive transformational effect as well.

I often felt like I was reconnecting with and reintegrating my past selves through this process. Somehow I feel more internally integrated as a result… and more grateful for the many experiences I’ve had. Processing old physical items helped me process old memories and some stuck energy, which gave me increased feelings of inner peace.

I hope these tips help someone who’s facing a similar decluttering (or upgrading) project.

This project has been going very well by the way. I’d say that I’m 80-90% done now. The garage has a whole different vibe – way better than when I first began. It’s been a surprisingly rewarding project, and it feels so good to reclaim that space for a better purpose than a graveyard of old stuff. Every time I donated or recycled something, I felt a sense of relief and a fresh vibe of possibility, like I’d freed up some energy that had been stuck for years.

Subjectively speaking, I also like to frame the purging of old items as releasing energy back to the Simulator, so that energy can be repurposed to simulate something more interesting. Why require the Simulator to waste cycles rendering old patterns that are no longer needed?

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Aligned Solutions

Aligning your life can be very challenging. By alignment I’m referring to harmonious interactions among your:

  • thoughts
  • feelings
  • frames / perspectives
  • lifestyle
  • living situation
  • relationships
  • values
  • desires
  • goals
  • intentions
  • work
  • finances
  • health
  • body
  • family
  • friendships
  • social life
  • personality

We all have misalignments to deal with in one of more areas of life. Are you actively engaged in correcting those misalignments to create greater harmony? Or do you let misalignments fester?

Misalignments have a tendency to multiply. They’re like clutter. Once we start tolerating a little bit, pretty soon we have a lot more to deal with. Letting this happen can make your life feel very burdensome after a while.

Fixing Misalignments

Sometimes I feel like the majority of my personal growth work (on the personal side, not the professional side) has been mainly about correcting misalignments in my life. Notice what areas of life aren’t working for me, and really fix them. A big step here is to define what a genuine fix looks like.

This began with misalignments like being raised Catholic and finding that totally wrong for me. It was a long journey to figure out my own philosophy of life that was honest and real for me – and that made me much happier.

I had to deal with a lot of misalignments between my desires and the kinds of results I was getting. I had to keep trying different frames and approaches to figure out how to connect the dots. The biggest challenge here was finding ways to take action that really fit my personality and natural motivations. This took me in some interesting directions. For instance, I initially thought that success would be a good motivator for me, but it really wasn’t. I actually get more motivational juice from caring, compassion, playfulness, fun, and creativity. I ended up experiencing more success when I gave myself permission to approach life and business with a lighter, more open, and more playful heart.

I was pretty bad at trying to earn money as a goal unto itself. I could never get my emotions to be that excited about it. I learned to be happy when I was broke, so I know that having more money won’t make me meaningfully happier. Hence it’s very hard to get myself to emotionally care about making more money. But I was able to increase my income by approaching this more like a game, whereby I focused on the creativity, the fun, the connection, and the playfulness.

Finding and Reducing Friction

I’d say that the heart is really the key to alignment. My biggest alignment mistakes happened when I tried to use my brain to go against my feelings. If my feelings aren’t aligned with what I’m trying to do, that kills my plans dead. Doing anything interesting in life requires sustainable motivation. So figuring out what gives you the most sustainable motivational juice can point you in the direction of increasing alignment too.

Life can easily fill up with friction that drains motivation. Many people in this field will advise you to push through that friction. Be tough. Discipline yourself. I used to think that way too, but not anymore. Discipline can be an okay short-term tool, but it’s not very sustainable. Pushing through friction is like repeatedly running a machine that’s making a grinding sound that isn’t supposed to be there. If you keep pushing through, you’ll cause some kind of damage. A better approach is to find what’s causing that friction, and solve that problem. Then run the machine smoothly and sustainably. Keep it well-maintained.

I’ve spent many years of my life looking at the friction in my life, which can be hard to face. I had friction in my relationships, my family life, my business, my income streams, and more. I think one of the best personal growth skills I’ve developed over the past few decades has been the willingness to look for friction and to really resolve it, even if it takes many years to do so.

I look at areas where my life isn’t working as well as I think it could. Then I start looking for sources of friction. What’s stopping me from experiencing the aligned flow I’d really like to experience in this part of life?

Just a machine with a friction problem may create excess heat or noise, you’re body will do something similar when you experience alignment problems. You won’t feel so good emotionally. Your heart will squawk at you.

Negative emotions are great pointers to sources of friction. Wherever you find negative feelings, you’ll find friction that’s getting in the way of greater alignment. That friction is also an invitation to solve a bigger problem.

Building Motivational Energy

I think the reason we’re so often hesitant to look in these places is that when we see the truth, it’s really hard to unsee it, and then we have to admit that we have a lot of work to do to fix these problems. But that attitude itself is a further symptom of being too tolerant of misalignments. It means we’ve let those misalignments drain us way too much, so now we lack the motivation and willingness to identify and fix problems that can be fixed. Just looking at our problems seems like it takes too much energy.

It’s not that the problems are so difficult. It’s that you’ve weakened yourself by letting the presence of these problems grind you down, like metal scraping on metal for too long inside a machine. So you aren’t functioning at your best, and that makes it harder to do repairs on your life.

I’ve noticed that as I correct major misalignments, I feel more motivated to fix even more of them. I feel more willing to look for resistance and to delve into the misalignments that cause friction. It is a lot of work to fix them sometimes, but it’s just so worth it. The more problems you fix, the more capable you become of solving even more problems.

There were times when I felt tremendously buried under a big pile of misalignments, and it took me a long time to dig my way out of them. It’s especially hard when the misalignments are sapping your motivation to want to deal with them. Sometimes you just have to chip away at them little by little with whatever motivation you do have. The key in those situations is to stop making the situation worse by allowing even more misalignments to pile up. And then start working on the most accessible problems that could free up some stuck energy when resolved. The more energy you can free up, the more you can leverage that extra energy to fix more misalignments.

The benefit of resolving misalignments is that then you have even more energy to create some wonderful alignments instead. It’s easier to pursue and create what you want when you aren’t so overburdened with sources of friction. It’s hard to take consistent forward action when you have so much energy bottled up in misalignments.

Lightening Up

Solving alignment problems can create a wonderful feeling of lightness.

My heart feels very light, open, and free-flowing these days. I don’t feel clogged with heaviness. Emotionally I feel like my life has been the equivalent of a gentle smile this year – pretty calm and peaceful but also content, happy, satisfied, and appreciative.

From this emotional state, it’s easy to be very productive too. I really enjoy the work I get to do. I like and appreciate the people I get to work with, especially in Conscious Growth Club. I like my business model, which feels very heart-aligned to me. I get paid for creating courses, coaching, and otherwise helping people improve their lives. It feels very win-win, very fair, and very abundant. But I had to say no to a lot of partial matches to reach this point, and partial matches can be very seductive sometimes.

I love and appreciate my relationship with Rachelle. It’s wonderful to spend so much time with a woman who’s my lover and my best friend. It’s nice to be in a relationship that includes an abundance of daily laughter, physical affection, and emotional support. Perhaps we have an unusual relationship, but it works for us.

I love being vegan since that works for me too. I must have eaten about 200 salads so far this year since I’m doing a year of raw, but somehow I haven’t gotten bored with them. I seem to have fallen in love with salads and look forward to at least one each day. I think that eating lighter foods has helped me feel emotionally lighter as well, but this way of eating also makes it extra difficult to tolerate misalignments. It’s very hard to feel good emotionally while eating raw if misalignments are allowed to fester because the emotional sensitivity is increased.

Unlearning Misaligned Solutions

A big part of this path has involved unloading from my mind the many misaligned ideas that I learned from other people.

A misaligned idea is a solution of sorts, but it’s not a very good solution. Misaligned solutions create negative side effects. Aligned solutions tend to create positive side effects.

I was taught that certain religious ideas are true, and then I discovered that they were neither true nor effective. Religion attempts to solve some problems, but it creates a lot of negative side effects as well. It’s a misaligned solution. It took some years, but I eventually replaced those ideas when a more truth-aligned and heart-aligned approach to life, the universe, and everything. And I don’t need to go to Church and sit through boring masses. I don’t need to kneel and eat wafers. I don’t need to turn frames into beliefs and wrap them into my identity.

I was taught that humans are superior to animals and therefore it’s okay to treat animal as products. We’re entitled to their bodies. We can just take their eggs and milk if we want. We can cage them, rape them, take their lives, and eat their flesh. It’s okay because we’re smarter and stronger. We’re special; they’re not. This is just how it’s supposed to be. Animals and meant to be sold at supermarkets and restaurants. Their flesh, milk, and eggs are part of our economy, just like any other commercial goods. We own them. They’re born as products, and they die as products.

Just typing those words regarding my old misaligned relationship with animals makes me feel nauseous. That way of thinking looks utterly wrong and ridiculous when I type it up, but how many people bother to type up these misalignments and take a real look at them? If you relate to animals as products – which you clearly do if you pay for their body parts, milk, or eggs – how does that sit with you? How does that mesh with your self-image and values? Does this feel aligned to you? Do you feel good about this relationship? Or is there friction in it?

I had so much trapped energy in that messed up relationship with animals in the past, but I wasn’t willing to look at it till I flowed towards a more aligned relationship with animals. I feel sad for how I treated them in the past. I was much too violent and too willfully ignorant, but I pretended I wasn’t. When I stopped relating to animals as products, I grew to appreciate them in a much more aligned way.

I grew up with the expectation that I was supposed to have a job and be loyal to some corporation. A boss was supposed to tell me what to do most days. I could have the weekends to recover and do some personal stuff. My obedience would be rewarded. I could never stomach going in that direction though – way too much friction. I still had to work through a lot of friction to go the independent creator path, but I saw a light at the end of that tunnel, and now I get to bask in that light on a daily basis. I didn’t see a light at the end of the corporate path other than eventually escaping from it to do something more free-flowing and creative.

It’s interesting that society gives us so many ready-made solutions – that suck. The pursuit of alignment is really about finding solutions that don’t suck. A misaligned solution sucks away your energy, your motivation, and your happiness. Aligned solutions give you energy, motivation, and happiness. Aligned solutions give you access to cleaner and more sustainable fuel sources, so they’re less expensive in the long run.

Choosing Alignment

To choose alignment it’s important to stop choosing misalignment. Stop going for the partial match; don’t be so easily seduced by it. Set your standards higher on the full match. Stop tolerating the sound of metal grinding on metal as the gears of your life are turning. When you hear that grinding sound, learn to stop immediately, find the source of the problem, and do what it takes to fix it. Then flip the switch back on.

It’s not enough to say that you’re choosing alignment while you’re still wallowing in partial matches. You can intend and ask for alignment all you want, but life is keen to observe when you’re still tolerating partial matches. Showing up to partial matches is a powerful expression of your intention too, and life hears that loud and clear, perhaps even more loudly than your stated intentions to outgrow those patterns.

You don’t just intend with your mind, your heart, and your spirit. You intend with your body as well. Whatever you show up to is part of your intention as well. If you really want to express a different intention in an aligned way, put your body into it as well. This means withdrawing your body’s presence from partial matches. Otherwise if your body keeps showing up for partial matches, it will drag your mind, heart, and spirit right along with it.

If you’re gonna say no to a partial match, make it a 4D no. Decline the partial match with your body, mind, heart, and spirit. That’s a real no – an aligned no. Any less than this, and you’re still saying yes to a partial match. Note that a 1D, 2D, or 3D no is equivalent to a 3D, 2D, or 1D yes, respectively.

You can’t fool or fake alignment. Either you’re saying a 4D yes to it, or you’re remaining in partial match land.

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Your Relationship With Your Alarm Clock

If you use an alarm clock to wake up in the morning, think about relationship you’d like to create with your alarm clock. What would be the healthiest and happiest version of that relationship for you?

If you were an alarm clock, what kind of relationship would you want to have with your human?

For instance, maybe your alarm clock would appreciate it if you’d pat it on the head now and then and say, “Thanks for waking me up today. I appreciate you!”

How would your alarm clock feel about being put across the room and kept at a distance from you? How would it feel if you groaned when it sounded off?

How would your alarm clock feel if you kept using the snooze feature? Would it potentially lose respect for you?

Have you ever thought about the kind of relationship you’d like to have with your alarm clock? How would you like to feel towards it, and how would you like to imagine that it feels towards you?

I normally use an alarm clock to wake up in the morning, set for 5am. I never use the snooze alarm since that wouldn’t help me experience the kind of relationships I want to have – with my alarm clock, with myself, and with the start of my day.

I like relating to my alarm clock on the basis of mutual trust and mutual respect. My alarm clock is my buddy who helps me start the day at the time of my choosing. It’s very reliable. I like knowing that I can trust it to sound off when I tell it.

If my intention was to get up at a certain time, and I didn’t just leave the alarm set by mistake, then it’s important to get up to honor that relationship. If I can trust that my alarm will sound off, I also want my alarm to trust me too – to trust that I’ll get up when I intended to get up.

While it may sound odd to have a relationship with an inanimate object, you’re already doing that anyway. Some patch of neurons in your brain is already storing your associations to your alarm clock. Like it or not, that relationship exists in your mind, and it will continue to exist. So you already have some stored thoughts and feelings towards your alarm clock. Do those thoughts and feelings serve you well? Or could you modify how you’re framing that relationship make it better?

If you’re going to have a relationship with your alarm clock in your mind anyway, why not make it what you want it to be? Make it a relationship that serves you well. Make it a relationship that helps you get the results you want.

If your relationship with your alarm clock is dysfunctional, do you really think that will help you create and maintain highly functional habits? How is that going to be good for your day’s startup routine?

For me a good relationship with any device involves trust, respect, and appreciation. I don’t want to use devices that I don’t trust, respect, and appreciate. Especially if it’s the first device that connects me with my day, I really want that to be a positive and uplifting relationship. If the very first sound I hear to begin my day immediately links me with a negative emotion, a downer thought, or a corrupted relationship, well… that’s a stupid relationship then, isn’t it? How is that possibly going to do me any good, especially if I let that relationship wallow unfixed for years?

If you have a messed up relationship with your alarm clock – or with however you like to begin your day – I invite you to fix that relationship. Start by making a real decision about what kind of relationship you’d like to have. Then go have a little talk with your alarm clock to share your thoughts and feelings about the kind of relationship you’d like to create with it. Imagine that it’s listening to you attentively, and then listen internally for what it wants to see from you.

Imagine creating a truly win-win relationship here. Consider what kind of relationship your alarm clock would love to have with you. What does it want from you? What kinds of behaviors would it like to see from you? How would it like to be treated? You might think that this is taking the idea a bit far, but I encourage you to think along these lines anyway since it can help you get clarity about the right kind of relationship for you.

I have a very positive relationship with my alarm clock. I can get up right away when it goes off and leverage it for a good start to my day. I’ve never put it across the room. I’ve never used the snooze alarm. I like and respect my alarm clock. I honor its purpose in my life. I appreciate what it does for me. I don’t have to burden myself with a negative relationship that I might drag forward into all of my future years. This relationship is all in my mind anyway, so it’s my choice what to make of it. Why not assert your freedom of choice here as well?

If it helps you get up feeling a little happier and a little more enthusiastic to imagine that your alarm clock is proud of you… or to imagine that your alarm clock likes being appreciated by you… that’s all good. Feeling appreciation is wonderful, so why not give yourself any reason to begin your day with that sort of feeling? Use your imagination to help you here. Don’t let a lack of imagination cage you in a negative relationship.

What is your version of a golden relationship with your alarm clock? What would that look like? What thoughts and feelings would you like to bring to this relationship? Whatever it is, you can create that relationship. But it sure helps tremendously if you take a moment to consciously decide what that relationship is going to be.

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Conscious Growth Club

Conscious Growth Club is now open for you to join, from now through May 1, 2021. First started in 2017, this is our most comprehensive personal growth program and support group.

We’re about to start our 5th year together, and you’re invited to join this week. This is the only week you can join CGC in 2021.

What Is Conscious Growth Club?

Conscious Growth Club is a private online club and coaching program to help you make faster and more consistent progress. It turns personal growth into a team game.

The essential purpose of the group is simple: We help each other grow into smarter, stronger human beings, whatever it takes.

CGC is an annual membership that includes:

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New for 2021: A 3-Day Halloween Online Workshop

This year we’re adding an all new CGC benefit: a 3-day online personal growth workshop for October 29-31, 2021 (Fri-Sun).

This workshop will be content-rich and will include plenty of interactive fun and connection with other members. The structure will be similar to one of our live in-person events but adapted for Zoom. This workshop will be recorded, and you’ll get the recordings too.

I will deliver most, if not all of the workshop content, but it’s possible that we may invite some CGCers to contribute too if there’s interest in that and if any CGCers want to stretch themselves.

Since the last day of the workshop lands on Halloween, we’ll invite everyone to wear costumes that day (totally optional, your choice) to make it even more fun and lively. 😃

Consistency Is Key

Conscious Growth Club is a unique program that was carefully designed and tested to help growth-oriented people support and encourage each other to keep improving their lives. I know of nothing else like this anywhere.

This group serves a powerful need that many of my blog readers have expressed – the need for a strong, stable, conscious, and ambitious peer group to support and encourage them every day. People especially need help staying focused and making consistent progress. I realized that this was a problem I could realistically help people solve – a significant yet achievable goal. Hence Conscious Growth Club was created to serve this need.

I’ve done the heavy lifting for you, so you can instantly add a growth-oriented social circle to your life simply by joining us. Rachelle and I will become a regular part of your social circle too since we’re active in the group every day.

Learn More and Join CGC

Here’s a web page to learn all about Conscious Growth Club, so you can decide if you’re a match for joining us.:

Enrollment Is Open Through May 1st

We’re opening enrollment for a 7-day window only, from now through Saturday, May 1st. This will be our only enrollment period for 2021. So if you want to join this year, now is the time. Visit the Conscious Growth Club page to learn the details.

The reason for opening just once for the year is so we can welcome new members all at once. Then we can focus on serving them well for the rest of the year.

I invite you to join us. It’s fun inside. 😃

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Spiritual Marketing

In January I deleted my Facebook and Instagram accounts, so I launched the new Amplify course without social media and with no advertising. I did share the invitation video on YouTube, but it only had a few hundred views there.

I felt attracted to the idea of pulling my business focus inward. Instead of reaching out to people on other sites and platforms, I wanted to just focus on the community that’s closest to my central online world – namely my blog readers, email subscribers, course customers, and CGC members.

I really don’t need social media or advertising to run a sustainable business and have a good life, and the closer I stick to the core audience, the more I seem to enjoy the experience. That’s good for my motivation too.

One of the key themes I’ve been sharing in the Amplify course is how important it is to focus on your relationship with your creative flow. Be wary of anything that potentially weakens or damages this relationship.

I like to practice what I preach, and every time I develop a new course, it makes me think more deeply about how to apply the ideas to my own life and work. I always make some improvements because of that.

I think this launch would have been a bit higher if I’d spent thousands of dollars on Facebook ads like I did with the Submersion and Stature launches. The ads were profitable in the past. But that requires having a Facebook account, and I like not having one right now. So I willingly let that extra revenue go. Being Facebook-free is worth it.

I’ve also found that when I focus on alignment, motivation, and positive relationships instead of income as a top priority, my income always seems to be just fine. Plenty of support flows my way with relative ease.

Moreover, I also find that when I let go of misaligned ideas, it frees up my mind to receive much better ideas. For instance, when I let go of advertising revenue, the following year I started doing live workshops, and I met my wife Rachelle at the very first one. I’d much rather have her in my life than the ad revenue. And my income is better today than it was with the ads anyway, even though my web traffic isn’t nearly as high as it was back then. Plus I feel a lot more aligned and motivated by my current income streams. I didn’t want to be in the business of selling ads.

There is one very weird thing that I do marketing-wise though. I do it because it only takes a few minutes, and it somehow seems to work. I don’t enitrely know why it works, but I keep seeing evidence that it’s having a positive effect.

Whenever I launch a new course, I put out a certain type of spiritual request. In my mind’s eye, I gather a bunch of spirit guides together and ask them to find people who’d be a good match for the course and to nudge them to join, such as by giving them encouraging signs or synchronicities. I picture myself chatting with the guides to tell them about the course and what it will do for people. Then I ask that if they know any humans who’d benefit, to please direct their human clients to the course. I let them figure out how to do that.

To me this is just a frame. No belief in spirit guides is required since it’s just an action. It’s quick and easy, and I figure it can’t hurt. And it does seem to work. I always hear stories of interesting synchronicities and signs that people experience that nudged them in the direction of the course. This encourages me to keep doing it. In fact, I actually have this as a to-do item on my course launch checklist now, so I remember to do it each time.

Would you be surprised to know that I’m not the only creative pro who assigns tasks to spirit guides like this? I know some other people who use a similar method, and they seem to find it effective too. And again, it’s just an action, so you don’t have to believe in spirit guides to do it.

I think tools are more useful than beliefs – a belief is just a tool that you’ve glued to your palm (or your eyeballs).

I wouldn’t rely only on this one spiritual marketing idea, but it’s a good example of an aligned action that I feel no resistance to doing. Hence it seems like a better tool to keep in my toolbox than being on Facebook, which I do feel some resistance to doing.

Sometimes moving away from resistance and towards new areas of flow takes you in unusual directions. I like it because it adds some spice and variety to life, and it keeps my creative work from feeling too boring or predictable.

I think a lot of people fear that if they let go of a tool or opportunity that’s a partial match, they won’t find anything better to replace it with. Maybe it will just hurt their business. I prefer to have more trust in my intuition and to place more value on my happiness. That makes me feel more resourceful, and I eventually come up with better ideas that feel more aligned and which are actually more effective.

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Creative Courage

I love the feeling of making a big creative commitment, knowing that I have to lean into trust, rely on my knowledge and skills, and take lots and lots of action to follow through.

It reminds me of when I used to go cliff diving on Catalina Island when I was younger, jumping off a large rock into the ocean and hoping I landed the right way.

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Once the commitment is fully made, there’s this feeling of being all-in. All doubt is shoved aside since there’s no point in entertaining such thoughts after the decision to go forward is made.

Post-commitment all of my energy flows in the same direction – towards completion. I internally switch off any modes of thinking that might create internal friction. If such thoughts try to surface, they get lasered into oblivion.

I keep a careful watch on my emotions during this time, looking for any emotional drift from solid and sustainable motivation. If I spot any issues, I move to address them immediately. I do what it takes to keep my motivation in the sweet spot for consistent creative flow.

I’m in this mode now. Today I recorded and published the 10th lesson of the Amplify course. It’s a 21-minute lesson, and it took me a good 7 hours to fully design, record, edit, and publish it, including writing a one-page summary of the course and an exercise for the Amplify Workbook. I started shortly after 5am and finished just after noon.

Daily Commitment

This will be part of my daily flow for the next 7 weeks – every day including weekends – till the course is 100% complete.

In addition to creating 60+ audio lessons, I’ll also be hosting 8 live calls for course participants, one per week, starting this Wednesday, March 10. Bringing so many creative people together to connect, share, and inspire each other will surely be a lively adventure.

Many years ago the scope and speed of a project like this would have scared me. Now I love it. It feels edgy, fun, and engaging.

This course isn’t designed in advance. I’m co-creating it with the brave souls who’ve enrolled, one lesson at a time. When I woke up this morning at 5am, I didn’t know what lesson I’d create today. By 6am I was already well immersed in designing it.

I love how this project demands that I stay focused on it for many hours each day. I have to take it one step at a time and keep driving each step forward to completion. There’s at least one new deliverable every day, and it’s not done till it’s published. I can’t just put in what feels like enough time and call it a day. I have to finish and publish, or the creative part of the day isn’t over.

With this kind of rhythm, any misaligned thoughts or feelings are not to be entertained. The mental and emotional drive can only go forward, not backwards or sideways. I find that the commitment itself takes care of that pretty well. My mind knows the daily goal.

It’s very satisfy to work in such an immersive way, to fully commit myself to one of the biggest and deepest creative projects of my life. So much stems from that commitment. By telling my mind that we are absolutely positively moving forward on this, every part of me gets on board.

This is challenging at times, but it feels like I have all the mental and emotional capacity I need. This also requires tremendous trust. I have to trust that the ideas will flow each day. I have to trust that every single day there will be abundant fresh waves of inspiration and that they’ll always be there for me.

I don’t just want to create adequate lessons for this course. I want to create lessons that are interesting, original, insightful, profound, brilliant, unique, and often playful. I want to listen to a lesson after it’s recorded and think: Damn… that was incredible… how did I do that? I want to twist and squeeze every drop of creative essence I have and pour it into this course. I want to record with great emotional energy and expressiveness. And I want to enjoy the experience, day after day. I want to be full of satisfaction and gratitude after publishing each lesson, anticipating how beautiful it will be when people get to listen to it.

Creative Courage

I feel that the key to all of this is creative courage – to finally have the guts to go all-in with a project that I feel ought to be created. This includes choosing a project that’s in my edgy zone. It’s not so easy that I already know how to do it, like plucking a piece of low-hanging fruit off a tree. It seems possible, but it’s going to require that I do my best. A half-hearted effort won’t suffice.

I feel immensely pleased with the first 10 lessons, and the feedback rolling in has been extremely positive, with some people saying they’ve already gotten their money’s worth from the course. I’m really pouring my heart and soul into this, with some lessons making me cry while I design them. This is definitely not just a mental-level experience. It’s a potent journey through creative space, and that can be emotionally intense. It’s like I’m taking all of the emotional energy that flowed through me during nearly 30 years of creative work and infusing it into this course. It’s potent!

I also like that the invitation to join the course requires creative courage to accept. This is not a course for everyone. It’s for people who hear the call to do creative work, and they have the courage to say yes to it. It takes guts to commit yourself to a major deep dive like this, knowing that you’re going to emerge from it a different person – a person who is going to create ripples in the world.

I feel like the real purpose of the Amplify course is to fill people’s hearts and minds with so much creative inspiration and motivation that they experience a major upgrade in their creative courage… and this energy must then flow forth in a powerful fountain of original creative expression.

Do you have the guts to join us?

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Being Appreciated as a Creator

If you’re a creative artist, how important is it for your work to be appreciated by the people you serve?

I’d say that it’s pretty important to be appreciated as an artist. This isn’t about needing validation from other people. This is about serving people who will receive your work with gratitude.

If you are appreciated, it’s probably because you’re providing something of value to people, something that resonates with them and that they care about. You’ve earned that appreciation. I don’t think this needs to be your main reason for creating art, but it’s healthy to incorporate this into your big picture mindset of your life of an artist. When you create and share your art, you’re inviting people to experience and appreciate what you’re sharing. So can you allow yourself to be appreciated?

If someone doesn’t appreciate my work, what sense would it make for them to visit my website or to enroll in my courses? What sense would it make for me to try to serve them? It doesn’t make sense to serve people who don’t appreciate your work. So focus your attention as an artist on people who WILL appreciate your work. Think of your audience as consistent only of the appreciative people.

Remember that you aren’t creating for everyone. You’re just creating for the appreciative people. That’s one reason you needn’t worry about critics. If a critic shows up, and they don’t appreciate your work, then clearly they’re lost. The critic showed up where they don’t belong. So you can simply nudge them out, or direct them to something they may actually appreciate.

It may take some time to calibrate yourself to the right audience, but you want to keep investing where the appreciation is. If you aren’t building an audience of appreciative people, then you’re building an audience of unappreciative people? What sense does that make?

For me appreciation is a given. If my work isn’t appreciated by someone, then that person isn’t in my audience. Maybe they’re lost and need directions elsewhere.

It’s certainly in my mind, for instance, that I’m creating the new Amplify course for the people who will appreciate it. This course is for creative people who want to be more productive since those people are very likely to appreciate how the course will help them. For those that wouldn’t appreciate it, it’s not for them.

I don’t create just to create. I always create for people, often for people that I’ve met. When I wrote my very first article five years before I started blogging, it was for a specific audience. I wrote that article for a software trade association that I was a member of, and the article was published in their newsletter. I didn’t write an article into a void and hope someone out there would read it. I’ve always written articles for real human beings that I felt would appreciate reading what I wrote.

When I started my blog in 2004, I already had a small audience for it because I’d been writing articles on the side for the five previous years. So I started my blog to share more with the people I was already writing for. The audience grew a lot from there, but I didn’t start a blog with zero readers. What would be the point in creating for no one in particular, hoping that someday people might show up? I think I would have found that demotivating.

What if you have no audience? Yeah, don’t do that. Always have an audience, even it’s just one person.

With my computer games business, I had no audience to start with before I wrote my first game, right? Wrong. My first audience was just a handful of people. This included my girlfriend, my sister, and a few friends that I’d invite to my apartment to playtest the games I was writing.

Whenever I tried to create something with no audience of real people in mind, that project would never see the light of day. That was a fantastically reliable recipe for failure.

As tempting as it can be for creative artists who are first starting out, I encourage you to drop this idea of creating into a void and hoping to find an audience later. Find your starting audience before you create anything. A one-person audience is totally fine – plenty of room to grow.

I’ll also say that the audience is more important than the projects. Serve the people who will appreciate your work, and they can encourage and support you across many different projects. They can send such an avalanche of help your way if you serve them personally. I’m still serving some people who’ve been reading my work since 1999. They appreciate me, and I appreciate them. Our long-term, trust-based relationship is way more important than any one project.

If I want a project to succeed, I know I must create it for real human beings from the start. And if I begin with this intention, my creative work will also end up serving people I didn’t know and wasn’t thinking about at the time, so the appreciation and support will grow.

Sometimes I write articles with just one person in mind. Sometimes I write articles with certain types of people in mind – still including real people that I know. On rare occasions I’ll write an article with myself as the audience in mind, but usually I reserve that kind of writing for private journaling. But the intended audience always consists of at least one real human being.

What’s definition of art? Here’s one:

art: the expression or application of human creative skill and imagination, typically in a visual form such as painting or sculpture, producing works to be appreciated primarily for their beauty or emotional power.

Note the phrase “producing works to be appreciated.” That implies that the work must be created for someone to appreciate.

So if you’re not creating work to be appreciated, are you still creating art? Nah. I don’t know what you’re creating, but it isn’t art. Art is social. Art is created for people to appreciate.

Now that doesn’t have to be the only reason for creating. You can create for a wide variety of reasons, but consider that appreciation had better be one of those reasons.

I think we can also grant you a pretty wide latitude for what you consider to be appreciation. You can create art that challenges people, that upsets people, that makes people curse aloud, and yet on some level they may still appreciate those experiences. Even for work you consider deplorable, there’s a good chance that someone actually appreciates it. So this really isn’t a very difficult standard to meet. If you simply bother to aim for it, you’ll probably meet this standard fairly easily.

But if there’s zero appreciation, then I don’t think you can claim that you’ve created art. And that usually stems from a failure to include appreciation (on a personal level, as felt by a real human being) as part of your original intention.

Don’t think that it’s vain to create for appreciation. Think instead that it’s lame and pointless to create for no appreciation. If no one appreciates what you’re creating, then you are indeed just wasting your time. But an easy way to avoid that is to create with appreciation in mind. Make appreciation part of your intention for creating. If you do that, you’ll probably receive plenty of it.

I hope you appreciated this article. I wrote it for you. 😉

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Amplify Course Is Now Open for Enrollment

Our new Amplify deep dive course on creative productivity has launched. I invite you to join if you’re interested in improving your creative flow. You can watch the invitation video to learn about the course here:

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The main purpose of Amplify is to help you make major improvements to your creative flow and creative output. There are 5 core transformations that we’ll be working on together:

  • Overcome creative anxiety, so creative work becomes light-hearted, free-flowing play
  • Improve creative consistency, so you can reliably finish your creative projects
  • Attract an aligned audience that appreciates, encourages, and supports you
  • Build your creative courage to make bigger and bolder contributions
  • Generate abundant and sustainable income from your creative flow

Amplify is an audio course. There are 4 lessons already published, and we’ll be building it up to at least 60 lessons in March and April, with new lessons being added each week. There will be lots of writers, artists, musicians, app developers, designers, YouTubers, and all sorts of creative people going through this experience together. So it’s going to be a fun explosion of creativity. 😊

Since many people wanted this deep dive to have a social aspect as well, I’m also going to host 8 live Zoom calls for all course participants – every Wednesday at 10am Pacific time from March 10 to April 28. These calls will include group sharing, breakout discussions, and Q&A. This gives you the flexibility to approach Amplify as a solo introspective journey, a social journey, or a mix of both. You’ll find a link to register for the calls in the Amplify portal after you enroll.

If you’d like to learn more about the course, please see the Amplify invitation page, which will give you all the details. I’d recommend watching the invitation video on that page to see if the course interests you. That should really give you a good idea of what the course is about, along with extra details about the changes we’ll be working on together.

There’s a launch discount too, which saves you 40% on your enrollment if you sign up by Friday, March 12th. So if you want the discount, you’ve got some time to decide.

I also added a sign-up counter to the top of the Amplify invitation page, so you can see how many people have joined so far (not counting Conscious Growth Club members, who also get access as part of their membership).

I hope you’ll join us for this one – it’s going to be a fun and fascinating deep dive.

Hugs! ❤️

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The 5 Major Transformations Creative People Want

Here’s an update on the new Amplify course on creative productivity that will be launching by the end of the month. I figured out the major transformations we’ll be working on together, so in this post I’ll share those with you.

First off, I appreciate all the generous feedback that people sent in response to the February 3rd email to my email list. I asked about people’s creative struggles, dreams, and desires regarding their creative flow, and the responses were super insightful.

I actually cried a few times while reading some of the emails. I felt honored by the authenticity and depth that people shared. In particular, this one line that someone shared really got to me emotionally:

The sad part is that with becoming older and having kids I quit my side project ideas earlier and earlier.

This reminds me of the saying, “Don’t die with your music still in you” that I learned from Dr. Wayne Dyer. It’s a powerful reminder of what’s at stake here.

Here’s another line that really stood out for me:

I want to be a safe space for people.

That’s such a beautiful and compact way of expressing caring for the people we serve.

It took me several days to read through all the feedback, including replying to everyone who responded. I took a ton of notes on this feedback, and my notes added up to almost 40K words – practically a book right there. Then I spent more time reviewing, pondering, and condensing the ideas to figure out the transformations that people wanted.

Initially I got it down to a list of 16 transformations, and then I was able to condense further to 5 major transformations. Would you like to know what they are? Here’s what it boiled down to:

1. Stressful resistance → Light-hearted, free-flowing play

  • Feeling pressured, nagged, stressed, frustrated, guilty, disappointed, blocked, overwhelmed → relaxed confidence; having abiding trust in yourself as a creative pro
  • Creating with stress, fear, anxiety, shame, perfectionism → creating with a light-hearted, free-flowing playfulness of spirit
  • Impostor syndrome; doubts about value → confidence and certainty in value delivery

One of the most common desires people had was to change their relationships with their creative work. People are tired of stressing out with anxiety when they try to be creative, and they recognize that a dysfunctional relationship here is counter-productive. They want to ENJOY the experience of creating from start to finish, emphasis on JOY.

Notable Quotes From Feedback

  • Long track record of creative blocks, frustrations, and procrastination
  • I put my self-esteem on the line when approaching a new project.
  • Frustrated that my productivity and creative projects are slaves to my emotional states and external circumstances
  • I’m terrified of my creativity. I don’t know why. Maybe it feels like a force that, once unleashed, will be too wild and out of control.
  • I often look at my creative work and worry that it’s complete rubbish.
  • I was so disciplined and good at (unconsciously) forcing myself to do things that I’ve pushed myself into intense anxiety.
  • These struggles are costing me my youth.
  • The struggle of me being afraid to start is costing me the progress I could have been making all these years.
  • I’ve found most projects immediately or eventually infused with anxious feelings.
  • There’s a part of me that is pretty sure that my creative inclinations are self-indulgent and can’t possibly benefit anyone.
  • Afraid of looking fake
  • There seems to be a point where my enthusiasm about the project switches to loads of resistance.
  • Scared it won’t be anything worth sharing so why begin in the first place
  • I rarely feel satisfied with what I create.
  • Feeling like whatever I create is never good enough for others to see
  • Every time I write a chapter, I doubt myself or think why the hell would anyone take my advice.
  • Change my mindset from feeling neediness, trying to be right and avoid making mistakes and being wrong to following through with the project, sense of lightness and engagement as opposed to resistance
  • Less pushing and feel more pulled
  • Less relying on accountability and more genuine excitement, satisfaction and confidence
  • I want the whole damn wall to come crashing down and I want to be filled with creative inspiration and fire.
  • Regular, sacred, and delightfully enjoyable time devoted to creative output during my week.
  • Enjoy picking my instrument up again, the way I did when I skipped school to just jam, and write music all day.
  • That level of connection, with the self, the instrument, music and the listener is the holy grail.
  • Experience a joyful and playful relationship with the creative process.
  • I want it to feel like play.
  • Integrating ease into my creative process

2. Unstable or inconsistent progress → Reliable and consistent flow of creative output

  • Not finishing what you start; fizzling out → finishing and shipping completed projects; capturing opportunities instead of letting them pass you by; a process that converges towards publishing
  • Inconsistent, haphazard, or unbalanced workflow → stable, consistent, and reliable workflow you can trust; hitting your stride; maintaining momentum
  • Low creative output → prolific output; seeing your collective work grow notably each year
  • Confusion about priorities and process → clarity in priorities and process; reliable systems
  • Insufficient time and energy → plenty of time and energy for creative projects

People are tired of piling up projects that die on the vine. One common refrain I heard was: “I have no shortage of ideas! The problem is that I’m not seeing enough of them through to completion.” People want to trust themselves to follow through and finish, but they’re clinging to approaches that degrade self-trust and build up self-doubt instead. Many could use help upgrading their systems and practices, so they can prioritize better and follow through with consistency. A lot of people struggle with dropping or switching projects partway through.

This transformation crosses between the mental and emotional space, and a lot of solutions you’ll find elsewhere don’t build this bridge very well, so the mind and heart remain in a constant tug of war. Your mind wants one thing, and your heart wants another. What we need here is to get them agreeing upon and committing to a common goal. I have a lot to share about how to do that – it has to do with choosing projects differently up front, before you begin.

Notable Quotes From Feedback

  • Started, half-finished projects litter the house
  • Subtly eroding the feelings of significance and importance I have in life
  • The sad part is that with becoming older and having kids I quit my side project ideas earlier and earlier.
  • My projects fail because I switch to other projects that are new and shiny and I quit my previous ones.
  • I end up quitting when it stops being fun.
  • Get pulled away and the pause becomes power off
  • I’m fussing about ideas.
  • I keep second guessing myself.
  • Constantly second-guessing my choice of projects
  • Hard time prioritizing and executing
  • Interrupted almost daily by other obligations
  • My energy is too limited.
  • Not to get distracted by the shiny object syndrome
  • A large part of my energy is already being used up by the discipline required to sit down and be productive.
  • I never seem to have enough time or energy in a day.
  • It’s a balancing act with everything else I have going on in my life.
  • My funnel is more of a straw.
  • Preserving the mental and physical energy to put towards creative projects when I have to devote so much time to a job
  • Create something uniquely genuine that I can be proud of.
  • Having a smooth content production mind-set and system that makes product creation pleasurable, productive, and profitable
  • Get into that flow state when I want to.
  • How to easily load and re-load my state of flow
  • Step in and out of creativity without losing momentum.
  • How best to balance making forward progress on business tasks and projects while at the same time allowing space for creative projects
  • Sustainable habit of creative self-expression
  • A creative, flowing, balanced, fun, challenging but easy-going life
  • Generate creative outputs at will.
  • I have so much light and love inside that’s been SCREAMING to GET OUT in a kind and gentle way.
  • Lungs that long to express the depths of our universe and a soul who’d like to be felt and understood by other beings surrounding me

3. Unappreciated or ignored → Appreciated, respected, loved, and encouraged

  • Feeling unappreciated; being ignored or forgotten; unsure if your art matters to people → being appreciated and valued; connecting with people’s hearts; belongingness; feeling at home here; having people encourage you to create
  • No audience or misaligned audience → aligned audience of people who appreciate, respect, and love you; people you enjoy serving and who encourage, inspire, and motivate you

Many people struggle with a lack of connection to the people they could be serving. They either don’t have an audience yet, or they have a misaligned audience that doesn’t seem to care much. Life is very different when you attract an audience that appreciates your creative work and keeps encouraging you.

Some key mindset (and heartset) shifts we’ll work on in Amplify involve the relationship you develop with your audience. There’s a big difference between creating in a void and creating for real people that you care about.

What many people don’t realize that the audience matters more than the projects in most cases. When you have a strong connection with an aligned audience, that relationship can help carry you through many inspired projects. This is very different than creating something in a void all by yourself and then hoping to surprise some random audience with your brilliance… someday… eventually.

Notable Quotes From Feedback

  • When it seems like no one notices or cares about what I’ve done, I get demotivated.
  • I feel I cannot do it by myself in silence and be successful.
  • Discouraging to think that a project I’m spending so much time on may never be seen
  • Be OK with not everyone loving what I do.
  • Have a reality that constantly inspires me.

4. Little or no impact → Bold contributions and ripples

  • Little or no impact → making a rich and meaningful contribution; creating ripples that align with your values; putting a dent in the universe; making your mark on this world in a way that no one can take away from you; summoning courage and boldness
  • No platform or outlet → stable platform that you like; ability to find or create new platforms
  • Small scale projects only → ability to follow through on larger works and see them to completion; scaling up
  • Lacking key skills → Developing, upgrading, and stretching your skills; providing value as you build your skills

Some people would really love to create more impact, especially by learning how to shift from short-form content like articles, YouTube videos, and social media updates to long-form content like books, albums, screenplays, and courses. Others want to build larger audiences, so they can positively impact the lives of more people. People recognize that it takes courage to set ambitious goals, and reliable follow-through is essential. It’s not enough to just think big and then fizzle out.

Notable Quotes From Feedback

  • My biggest creative projects have been too overwhelming, resulting in quitting before completion.
  • Easier to get into the flow while creating something but as soon as I need to market my project or share it with others, I fizzle out
  • Realizing I don’t yet have the ability to do the project in the way I envisioned
  • I feel like I just have to suck it up and grind through enough practice to become good enough at something that other people might possibly start to care.
  • How to approach a big project like writing a book or starting a new business and sustaining motivation until completion
  • Having the courage to pick a project that you feel is a little scary but you know you will figure out, and that really inspires you
  • Deliver creative output that can create ripples across humanity.
  • Trust that I can create something that can contribute to others while also helping me be the bold explorer of life that I want to be.
  • Create boatloads of value.
  • [Providing] Relief in knowing someone else out there recognizes their pain, sees them, puts their hearts longing into words on a page that they can read and feel less alone in the world
  • I want to be a safe space for people.
  • Consistently increase my skills and skill sets.
  • Bring into reality what I imagine.
  • Offering genuine value to others while at the same time clarifying my thoughts through my writing

5. Scarcity-driven income and caged lifestyle → Abundant income and enriching lifestyle

  • Little or no income from creative work → abundant income for a comfortable or wealthy lifestyle
  • Having an unwanted job or boss → making a good living as a creative pro; time freedom; location freedom; freedom to choose your own projects; knowing you can always make extra money from your creativity when you want

This one was no surprise. A lot of people want to step into a sustainable lifestyle of being a creative pro who earns an abundant living from their creative flow. Several people specifically mentioned they’d love to do something similar to what I do, either with the medium of blogging or with podcasting, videos, writing books, composing music, etc. People especially want time freedom.

Some people just want to complete some creative projects on the side, especially projects that can add supplemental income streams. They may want to write a novel or a screenplay because they feel they have an interesting story idea, but they don’t necessarily want to become a full-time writer.

Notable Quotes From Feedback

  • A day job that was killing my soul
  • The fact that I should make money from my art to keep my business afloat paralyzes me and stresses me out.
  • Afraid of being some money-grubbing wannabe who wastes people’s time and dollars
  • Costing me the amazing life I know I am capable of living
  • How to create consistent, recurring income through creative projects
  • Set up a side business to eventually turn it into my main source of income.
  • Cool if this lifestyle paid for itself
  • Publish a creative project in a way that creates lots of value for others that also allows me to be fairly/well compensated.
  • Actually making my living as a writer
  • I want to make art a foundation of my life.
  • Remove the need to have a boss or work for an employer permanently.
  • Find something that I really enjoy working on to the point that I can’t imagine doing anything else for work for the rest of my life.
  • Pick projects and really let myself go and be immersed in them, without ever worrying about money.
  • Get enough traction with my creative pursuit that I can make it my primary work.
  • Lead a life centered around my curiosities and personal growth. I’d love my life to feel like one wild, grand adventure.
  • What if I were known as an artist and creator?

So basically what people want here is: lightness, consistency, appreciation, contribution, and abundant support for their creative flow.

What do you think of these transformations?

I really like this list. It gives me tons of ideas for reframes, processes, and practices to cover in the course lessons.

Are these transformations possible? Yes, they are. They’re not easy though.

For many creative pros who are happy with their creative flow and enjoy great results, it took years or even decades to go through these transformations. For me personally it took more than a decade of full-time creative work before I really feel like I started hitting my stride – probably about 15 years if I’m honest about it. So much of this involved unlearning what I thought I knew about creativity and productivity. The models I picked up from elsewhere in society just didn’t serve me very well. I got better results from introspective analysis of my projects, results, motivations, and values. I began figuring out the patterns in my own behavior, so I could better predict which types of projects I’d finish. Then I knew when I could bet big and reliably follow through.

So don’t expect a 6-lesson mini-course that you can plow through in a day. A quickie isn’t going to get us there. There’s a lot to unpack here. We can take this journey together, but it won’t be a short one. The upside is that we can potentially shave years, maybe even decades, off your learning curve here.

I actually began compiling a list of lesson ideas as I read through the emails, and now I have 87 ideas on that list. Some of them could be condensed and combined, but it’s fair to say we can have at least 60 lessons for this course, on par with Submersion (60 lessons) and Stature (65 lessons). There are just so many juicy insights to cover here.

Format

Here’s what I can tell you regarding the course format.

Audio was the clear winner based on the feedback people shared, so we’ll go with audio for the core lessons – same as we did for the Submersion and Stature courses. Lots of people said they prefer audio lessons over video for flexibility reasons. People like to listen while walking, running, driving, cooking, cleaning, etc. It’s easier for people to immerse themselves in audio lessons, much like listening to a podcast, and the visual aspect isn’t really needed for this kind of topic.

We’ll provide text transcripts for all of the audio lessons too. Some people said they prefer reading to listening. We’ll publish the text transcripts as we go, so you’ll get a written version of the whole course too.

I’ll aim to keep the lessons fairly compact, around 15 minutes each, which is what we had for Stature. That way you can listen while having a meal or doing other tasks. A good pacing would be to listen to one lesson per day, but you can go through the course at whatever pacing works for you. Some people like to go through the courses at a slower pacing to really take the time to digest and practice the ideas in each lesson. Many people have told me they’ve gone through our courses more than once, and each time it’s a different experience. I love that feedback because I designed the courses with that intention in mind – I see them as courses for life that will still provide meaningful insights 10, 20, or 30+ years from now. They’re all anchored in timeless, universal ideas and solutions.

I’ll also provide a written Summary Guide, which will include a one-page bullet list summary of each lesson, just like we had with Stature and Submersion. I’m leaning towards including written exercises for each audio lesson (like journaling prompts) as we had with Stature too. Some people said they appreciated that extra invitation to go deeper into the ideas. I think this course would be a good fit for that as well. There are a lot of people in my audience who enjoy looking deep into themselves from different angles, which raises their self-awareness and self-understanding. This helps them to discover their own a-ha moments.

While some people only want to approach this course as a solo introspective journey (similar to Submersion and Stature), most people recognized that it would be good to have at least some kind of social element to this deep dive, so they can connect with other creatives as we go. Many people were gung-ho about that, recalling how much they enjoyed the social aspect of Deep Abundance Integration. Some people offered this suggestion while acknowledging some inner resistance to the idea, noting that it would very likely be good for them to engage with other creatives… while also admitting to a bit of anxiety about connecting in this way. I can understand that. People want to come out of their shells a bit more, but they also recognize that it may take some courage to do so.

So here’s what I’m thinking…

In addition to the audio lessons, we can provide some live Zoom calls too, perhaps one call per week for 1.5 to 2 hours each time. These calls will be optional for you. We’ll provide them for the people who see value in having a social element to this journey. So you’ll have a chance to engage with other creative types as we go through this deep dive together.

I imagine doing at least 6-8 of these calls as we go. I can keep hosting them for as long as it takes to build out the lessons.

So I won’t be using these video calls for the core lessons like we did in Deep Abundance Integration. I want the core material to be in the audio lessons. I’d like to make these calls more focused on you and the other people going through the course with you. So this could include opportunities to hear about other people’s creative journeys, how people are applying the ideas from the course, extra Q&A with me, and perhaps some breakout rooms where we can engage in smaller groups with focused sharing and discussion topics. I envision these calls as another way to engage with the material and each other.

We can co-creatively evolve how we structure these calls as we go. I also think the calls could help people improve their ability to create in a flowing and playful way without so much stress and anxiety. If you participated in Deep Abundance Integration, you could probably tell that I had fun creating the course, playfully cracking jokes with people as we went – and even growing a beard throughout the course after it was suggested. So I imagine these calls being light, fun, and playful.

I think this could be a really nice combo. We’ll have the depth, focus, and introspective nature of structured, compact audio lessons. And we’ll have the light, fun, and social engagement of the Zoom calls.

I still need to figure out the timing for the Zoom calls, but it will probably be around 10am Pacific time on a weekday.

We can record the Zoom calls and share the recordings for those who can’t make the live calls, but I do think they’ll be more beneficial to attend live for those who want a more social experience. We’ll also have open text chat on these calls, just like we did with DAI, and we’ll make the chat logs available to everyone. That way if someone shares something beneficial like a book recommendation, you’ll have a record of that. You can also keep the chat window closed if you don’t want to participate in it. Some people loved the open chat, especially the humor and playfulness of it, while others preferred not to even look at it because they found it distracting for them. You’re free to choose what sort of engagement works for you.

I might also use a different Zoom format for these calls. With the DAI course, we used the webinar format, so only Rachelle and me were on camera, and everyone else could communicate through the text chat (which was very active on every call!). I think that made sense back in 2018. But now that so many more people are familiar with Zoom, I’m leaning towards doing this new deep dive in a Zoom meeting format. That means we’ll all be able to see each other on video. People can easily hide their video if they don’t wish to be on camera, but for everyone who wants to be seen, we can all see each other. I think this would create a more social vibe. We’ll just have to be judicious about using the mute button since there could be hundreds of people on these calls. I think it could be fun though. Last month I emceed a Transformational Leadership Council event with 100+ people on the Zoom call, and it was nice to see everyone’s faces and visual reactions.

A few people suggested having a discussion forum or Facebook group. I deleted my Facebook account in January (and Instagram too), so I can rule out a Facebook group since I’m not interested in engaging more on Facebook. A lot of people in my audience are turned off by Facebook as well. A Slack channel wasn’t popular either.

We have a private forum for Conscious Growth Club, which is great for those who want to engage with the people who are most invested in this community, especially across multiple deep dives and courses. I don’t feel aligned with the idea of spinning up a new discussion group or forum for each deep dive course that we do. I leaned into that for previous deep dives, such as when someone else created a forum for DAI participants, and we had a Facebook group for Stature. In each case I don’t think it was really a great fit for the experience. There are a small number of people who always ask for something like this, but I don’t think it’s the right medium to really deliver and support the transformations we’re looking for. I prefer other approaches like live, in-person events (when we’re not in pandemic mode) and Conscious Growth Club for long-term support and engagement across multiple years. So I think we’ll skip having a forum or discussion group for this one. I think our focus will be better without it.

My aim here is to provide the ultimate creative productivity course, filled with rich and practical insights and practices that can permanently improve your creative flow. I’m putting a lot of thought into figuring out the right combination of pieces to encourage and support the transformations that people want to experience.

Pricing

This is still tentative, but I’m leaning toward $497 for the price with a launch week discount down to $297. I think for everything we can provide here, that’s pretty generous and should be nicely affordable for the majority of creatives in my audience who really want to engage with this deep dive.

I’m designing this to be a super high-value course, one that could easily warrant a $2K price. I think it will be better than most of the $2K+ courses and programs I’ve taken. Many $2K courses are no better than much less expensive courses in my opinion. The main difference is that they’re offered to different audiences, such as entrepreneurs or business owners.

I want this course to be more accessible since it can provide major benefits for people which will serve them well for life. If I price it at $2K, then I’m really targeting creative pros who will regard it as a career investment. That would be a different kind of audience than I’d like to serve with this deep dive. I’d like this course to provide strong value for established pros as well as for people who have creative leanings and want to really explore that in great depth. This includes people who feel they may have a book, a blog, a song, or a YouTube channel inside them, wanting to be expressed and shared.

I don’t want to go below $297 though. I think if we drop it below that, we’ll attract more dabblers who aren’t as serious about these transformations. More people would join for curiosity’s sake. And that won’t be as good for having quality interactions on the live calls. And for some pros the investment could begin to feel too trivial, so they’re not really bought into the experience as much.

I want there to be a high enough commitment such that most of the people engaging in this deep dive together really want to get their money’s worth. Having some positive pressure and anticipation is healthy for us. I also want to balance this with making the course highly accessible for the people who could really benefit from it, which isn’t only established creative pros but also people just starting on their creative journeys.

Offering $297 for the launch price and $497 for the long-term price just feels right to me. It seems like the right balancing point when I consider how invested people will feel. When people feel invested enough, they’re more likely to finish the course, and that’s the main key to extracting the gains.

For the first several weeks, we’ll be co-creating this course together. I like offering a substantial launch discount because we create these courses as we go, and it’s nice to have a bigger group going through the course as we build it. That benefits me too since then I get a lot of feedback and suggestions as I record new lessons each week. I also enjoy the extra social energy from knowing that people are listening to the lessons shortly after I record and publish them – I find that very motivating.

I think for someone who’s a good match for this course, $297 should be pretty irresistible. It’s hard to imagine a creatively inclined person not receiving many times that much value from this course. What is it worth to someone to finally get their books written and published, their albums created, their audiences built and expanded, and to have an enjoyable lifestyle as a creative pro if that’s their goal?

Incidentally, I also expect to record a lesson on pricing since it can be tricky to put a price on creative work.

The launch discount will be good for at least 5 days – maybe 7 or 10 days – after we invite people to start joining. I’ll let you know the sign-up deadline to get that discount when we launch.

My Feelings About the Upcoming Launch

A fellow Conscious Growth Club member recently asked me how I feel about the upcoming launch and course development since I’m clearly taking on a big creative responsibility here. She wondered if I was feeling anxious or stressed or excited about it. Here’s what I shared – to give you a glimpse of what my interior experience is like:

  • curiosity
  • intrigue
  • a sense of adventure and discovery
  • commitment
  • resolve
  • a sense of connection to the people involved
  • teamwork
  • cooperation
  • a feeling of being gifted with a big responsibility
  • willingness
  • acceptance of the work ahead
  • thinking of the laughs and tears and shifts people will have along the way
  • imagining all the new creative works that will be spawned by this: books, blogs, albums, paintings, live events, etc.
  • thinking about the people who really need this experience and how beautiful it will be for them
  • caring and compassion for all the struggles and frustrations people have been dealing with
  • appreciating this wonderful opportunity to help in a meaningful way
  • imagining the ideas flowing together in a nice modular structure
  • imagining meeting up with people in person, where they tell me about their transformations and I get to congratulate them and feel compersion for what they’ve accomplished
  • feeling proud of the people who’ll soon be going through the course and the deep inner work they’re about to do
  • feeling honored that I get to play this role and engage with such great spirits along the way

Much of the emotion I experience comes from thinking about the people who’ll be going through the course and what it will be like for them. I do get excited about that.

It’s an emotional journey for me to create a course like this. I will laugh and cry many times along the way. I’ll have a-ha moments as I figure out new pieces. And it will be fun to connect with people on live calls and see them engaging with each other. Several people mentioned that they don’t have anyone to connect with like this. I love that I can bring people together for such a noble purpose. Playing this role lights up my heart.

It’s a feeling of being called to serve a tremendous need and saying yes with an open heart and mind. It feels very right all around – right topic, right people, right timing.

I share this in case it helps you gain some extra insights on the framing that works for me when I’m engaging with a major new creative project

I think what gets a lot of creative people stuck is that they put their project first in their mind, and the people they’re serving are buried somewhere in the backs of their minds, almost like an afterthought. I find it much more productive and flowing to create with real people in mind. That’s been true for all the years I’ve been blogging. I didn’t just start writing into a void, hoping that people would show up. I actually began writing articles 5 years before I started my blog, always for specific groups of people, beginning with a group of software developers.

Helping you find the right audience is going to be a significant part of this course. I would say that this is even more important than helping you to complete any particular creative project. If you find the right audience and learn how to genuinely connect with them, those relationships can carry you across many creative projects for many years. That’s why I haven’t burned out after 16+ years of blogging. It’s not the medium or the content that keeps me going. It’s the people.

That’s why I can write a giant message on a weekend morning and enjoy the process. I know some people aren’t going to read this much. I know some people will unsubscribe at the sight of it. But the people who revel in these kinds of ideas are the ones I’m really here to serve and connect with – that’s where all the joy is.

When Is Amplify Launching?

We’ll launch the course as soon as we’re ready to go. I still need at least one more week to prepare everything. I’d like to record a few lessons up front, so people have something to listen to right away when they join. Then we’ll co-create the rest of the course as we go, adding more lessons each week till it’s done.

I follow a structured process for doing course launches, so I’m working from a detailed checklist, which converges on launching. In fact, I’m thinking of including that checklist as one of the course bonuses since it shows how I break a large project down into a step-by-step workflow that gives reliable results. I’ve been refining this process with each launch, so it’s pretty solid now. It would be relatively straightforward to adapt it to other types of projects as well.

I hope you enjoyed this update. If you’d like to share extra feedback about anything here, just send me a message to let me know. Otherwise I’ll invite you to join us in Amplify when we’re good to go, assuming you’re on the email list to get such invitations.

Also, if you know any other creative people who’d likely benefit from this course, please share this post with them, or tell them about the opportunity some other way. You could also invite them to join my email list, so they’ll be notified when the launch happens.

This will be a deep and fascinating journey for those who choose to experience it. Are you in yet? ❤️

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Driven by Curiosity

People often ask me what drives me. While there can be many motivations for taking action, I’d say that one of my biggest drivers is curiosity. I love to learn, and I find it most valuable to learn through hands-on direct experience.

In my early years of exploring personal development, I did a combination of reading books and doing experiments on my own. I almost always found direct experimentation to be a better investment. Books were mostly good for stimulating further experimentation. It was rare that I found good ideas from books that I could apply as-is. Most ideas I picked up from books were misaligned, and they often led me astray for a while. I made the mistake of trusting other authors too much and giving them too much credibility. I mistook their confidence as as reason to presume that their ideas were flawless.

Many of my best advancements and cherished experiences started with a spark of curiosity. Then I added fuel to that spark by investing in exploration.

I went vegan 24 years ago because of curiosity. I’m eating raw this year because of curiosity. I became an entrepreneur after college because I was curious about it. I moved to Las Vegas because of curiosity.

I’m especially curious about how different experiences will affect me. I can’t always predict what I like and how I’ll feel about different situations. So my curiosity is often comprised of questions like these:

  • What would it be like to do X for a month?
  • What would that experience do to me?
  • How would it affect me if I permanently added the memory of doing X?
  • What if I could learn to do X? What then?
  • What will happen if I join (or quit) this group?
  • If I eat this way instead of that way, how will it affect me?

Here are some specific versions that I actually implemented:

  • What would it be like to try going vegetarian for a month?
  • What would it be like to exercise every day for a year?
  • What would happen if I blogged every day for a year?
  • Would I enjoy training in martial arts? How would that change me?
  • How would my life change if I deleted my Facebook and Instagram accounts?
  • What would happen if Rachelle and I spent 30 days in a row going to Disneyland?
  • If I get an idea to travel somewhere, what if I just go there immediately?

While creating positive social ripples often factors into my decisions, the spark of curiosity is usually more personal. I like having an experientially rich life, and I’m very curious about how different experiences will affect me.

I think it’s similar to the motivation that gets people playing video games. You probably want to have fun, and you’re curious about what the game will be like. You know that some games are great, some okay, and others duds, and you’re willing to take the chance on an interesting experience. The more games you play, the more you learn about what you personally like.

In fact, my curiosity about video games when I was younger eventually drove me to become a game developer for 10 years. I wanted to know what it would be like to design and create games. Now I know. It’s a lot of work but can also be very rewarding. People still occasionally email me about games I wrote during the 1990s.

One thing I tend to do differently than most people is that I also use the lack of curiosity to turn down projects. I do my best to decline projects and invitations that don’t spark any curiosity. If the outcome is a foregone conclusion or if the experience doesn’t seem intriguing, what’s the point in having that experience?

When I’m not curious and I try to push myself to take action anyway, I usually fail. I failed at my first attempt at college because I tried to do it like everyone else. It was too predictable and boring. There was no spark of curiosity.

On my second attempt at college, I remedied that. Instead of taking four years, I graduated in three semesters with two degrees by taking about triple the normal course load. I was curious as to what my best effort would look like since I never felt driven to do my best academically up to that point. I was also lucky in finding some good teachers who were themselves curious about their subjects, which uplifted me after the dreadful dial-it-in teachers brought me down.

I learned that I could succeed nicely by following my curiosity, but it was critical to keep that spark of curiosity alive. I couldn’t allow my pursuits to become too dull or predictable. I’m too much of an explorer at heart.

One reason I’m happy in my marriage is that I married a woman that I’m intensely curious about. Even after 11 years together, I’m still rediscovering her anew. She’s very curious and growth-oriented as well, which I think is critical for keeping that spark in our relationship alive. It also helps that we have a lifestyle that keeps bringing in fresh experiences, even during COVID times. We’re both good at embracing the new, so we share a lot of new experiences together. I think we do a great job of balancing the familiar with the fresh, so we’re neither bored nor overwhelmed.

While curiosity can get me into trouble – and it certainly has in the past – I’ve learned to embrace it as a powerful and important form of inner guidance. I see areas of life that I’m not curious about as dead zones where I wouldn’t want to invest. I see areas of life that I’m curious about as being good investments of time and energy.

When I’m exploring a genuine curiosity, I feel like my life flows about 3x faster. I get way more done. I learn more. I’m happier too. I don’t always want to be in this mode 100% of the time, but it sure is fun to ride it while I can sustain that pacing. One thing I love about eating raw this year is that I have more energy to stick with these waves for longer. I don’t need as much downtime for rest and recovery. So that’s a really nice combo that I’m enjoying a lot.

The best areas of investment involve overlapping curiosities. Overlapping curiosities can greatly multiply the motivational effects. And this often adds feelings of deeper meaning and purpose. I’ve noticed that my life becomes very purposeful just by following enough curiosities.

For instance, my curiosity about blogging and personal development led me to create one of the first personal development blogs 16+ years ago, and that turned out pretty well. People come here every day to pick up new insights to help them improve their lives, so the result is very service-oriented. I also wove in many other curiosities along the way, like public speaking and travel.

For many years I’ve been living and working within the overlap of multiple curiosities of mine. I think that’s why I feel so naturally motivated most of the time. I don’t allow my work to become too boring or predictable. This is why I don’t pick a singular niche to cover. I need the flexibility to pursue my curiosity wherever it takes me. I’m also very curious about how to connect the dots throughout many different areas of life, such as how my diet affects my productive, relationships, and emotions. I’m not just curious about one particular niche. Hence my business has to provide me with enough room to explore. If I had a business that got in the way of my curiosity, that business would be in trouble.

When I get invited to new experiences, I try to maintain the standard that they must at least be interesting for me. I have to be curious about them. If I’m not curious, I know I should invest elsewhere.

Here are some specific examples.

Earlier this month I emcee’d the first day of an online event for the Transformational Leadership Council. I’ve been a member for many years, so this is a familiar space for me. I’ve never been an online emcee before, although I have done that role in person. I wanted to do something different by challenging myself to pack in lots of inside jokes about the members of the group by doing setups and punchlines that only the members themselves were likely to understand. I enjoyed playing that role and received lots of positive feedback about it. I was curious to see how that kind of humor would land on a Zoom call, especially when I would only see the people but wouldn’t be able hear any laughter. That had the potential for awkwardness and risk, which made it feel edgier to explore.

I also did a podcast interview about productivity this month. I’ve done a lot of productivity interviews before, so I thought about how to bring some fresh and unusual insights to the experience this time. Could I share some empowering frames on productivity that people aren’t likely to have heard before? With that in mind, I think it was one of my best interviews on the subject. The host and I got into a nice conversational flow about some unusual yet effective ways to be more personally productive. I can share a link to it when it’s published.

And lastly, I also switched web hosts this month and really got into researching the best host for my needs. My old host, Siteground, has been going downhill for a while, so I knew I needed to jump ship before their service and support got any worse. Now we’re up and running on a much faster server with Cloudways. You may notice that this website is speedier and more responsive than it was a few weeks ago. This improvement is especially nice for people going through the courses since the course portals load much more quickly now.

When determining the flow of projects through my life, I mostly like to follow my curiosity. In order to stick with projects and complete them instead of bouncing around too much, I need to find enough curiosity to sustain me through completion. Interesting goals really help since I tend to be more curious about pursuits that lead to worthwhile results. I get curious about the impact of those long-term results.

If I’m not curious enough but I still want a result, then I know I need to change my approach. I have to reframe or refactor the project to include more learning and discovery. Thinking bigger can make a real difference here. When a project becomes too easy and straightforward and there’s no risk involved, it’s really hard to feel motivated to do it. Thinking bigger is a great way to freshen up the risk profile. Edginess and curiosity go hand in hand.

In February we’ll launch and begin a new deep dive course on the topic of creative productivity called Amplify. If you want to be notified when we’re starting, just be sure to join my email list, and I’ll let you know when it’s open for enrollment. The point of this deep dive is to help you discover what really gets you into a sustainable flow of high-quality action. If you know how to get into that flow regularly, it can permanently transform your life for the better. This isn’t just about creating work output – it’s about creating a life you enjoy and appreciate as well.

What gets you into the flow of sustainable action? If you’d like some fresh insights to up-level your flow, I think you’ll really enjoy the Amplify experience next month. 🙂

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